Take Time Out For YOU!
February 28, 2007 at 2:04 am | In Stress Release | Leave a CommentIn my line of work in the alternative health industry, I have noticed a common theme in the lives of some very powerful healers. In the most beautiful way, these powerful healers are heart-centered and quite self-less. The flip side of this can lead to caring ONLY for others and not giving much attention to themselves. Burnout is a very serious issue for these desperately needed healers. This is why I am always reminding people of how important it is to take some time out for themselves each and every day, no matter how busy the day seems to be. If this sounds at all familiar to you, I’d like to remind you of three important things: 1.) Like attracts like, 2.) There are quick and easy ways to take time out for yourself, and 3.) If you’re stressed, you won’t be as helpful to others as you can be.
Like attracts like. Where have you heard that before? “As you sow, so shall you reap,” and so many other famous quotes could be inserted here. It all basically comes down to what you put out in the world comes back to you—always. If you are stressed, you’ll keep getting more of the same—for yourself AND the clients or friends or co-workers in your day to day life. The people you meet or associate with will show signs of stress that you are feeling on a regular basis. However, if you begin by taking a few moments out for yourself, and you nurture and relax yourself on a regular basis, you will find the situations and circumstances in your life improve exponentially! Why? Because like attracts like—always—and when you are relaxed and centered you are better equipped to attract the ease you are magnificent at creating in your life.
“How can I think about ease when I’m stressed out and working frantically,” you ask? Easily. Take one minute at a time. If you’re super busy and on the go every day, schedule in a five-minute “ME” break on your calendar. Five minutes is very quick and everyone can do this easily. Maybe first thing in the morning could work for you, or during a lunch break at work, or while waiting for the bus or train. Five minutes listening to some beautiful, relaxing music, or a relaxation recording, or just simply taking conscious, deep breaths will give you enough relaxing space to rejuvenate yourself. I’d also like to point out that there may be some things you are already doing for yourself that you are putting in the “chore” category instead of the “ME” category. Things like exercising, eating a delicious meal, taking a shower, going to a movie, visiting a museum, and the list can go on and on. Think of these things as “rewards” for being you, and wonderful time out moments!
It’s always so easy to think of others when you are heart-centered. There are so many deserving people to love, nurture and care for. If all you do is take care of others (your children, spouse, friends, clients, co-workers, boss, relatives, etc.), and you leave no room in your life for you, you won’t nearly be as effective a caregiver as you could be. The healthier, stronger, more relaxed and centered you are, the more powerful you will be for your children, spouse, friends, clients, and so many others!
Remember: YOU are important, too. Here’s what I would point out: If you believe that others are deserving and important enough to care for, and that all people are expressions of the Universe (God, Creator, Goddess, etc.), could you believe that you, too, deserve love, support, and relaxation in your life? You are a part of this world and being stressed-out is NOT doing anyone any good, least of all you! Take the time for you, because you deserve it, and so does the world.
Kim for Hypno-Freedom
A “Crazy” New Way to Increase Sales – By Joe Vitale
February 28, 2007 at 12:47 am | In Articles | 1 CommentIn my new book, Zero Limits, I talk about the unusual therapist who helped heal an entire hospital ward of mentally ill criminals—without seeing any of them.
I’ve since learned his method for healing, which involves “cleaning” yourself of all negativity in order to see change in others.
It seems bizarre, but when you take care of your own issues, they disappear in other people.
The whole idea is to love the problems away.
You do it by saying “I love you,” and a few other statements, non-stop. I’ve been doing it for two years now and my life is astonishing. I live in an almost moment-by-moment state of bliss.
Once I learned this method, I started to use it on other things besides illness. Since I’m a practical metaphysician and an entrepreneur, I wanted to see if this wild method would work on sales and other bottom line results.
Whenever I would write an article—much like this one—I would send love into it.
Whenever I would write another book—like my new one, “Zero Limits”—I would keep saying “I love you” in my mind.
What I noticed is my emails and articles would get read and distributed to millions of people.
And my book, “Zero Limits,” became an Amazon bestseller—six months before it was published.
But I didn’t stop there in my testing.
Because I want to be sure this method works for others and not just me, I taught it to my close friends.
Bill Hibbler, coauthor with me of the book Meet and Grow Rich, was skeptical. But he borrowed a pre-publication copy of my book, Zero Limits, read it, and started loving his products and his list of subscribers. Here’s what he said:
“Sales for Jan 1-4 were 41.39% higher than Dec 1-4. During the four day period in January, I didn’t mail my list or launch any new promotion during that time. All I did was clean while reading your book and throughout the day.”
Bill went on to tell me he saw sales increase from sites like http://create-ultimate-ebooks.com/—which he wasn’t promoting at all.
How is this possible?
How can “cleaning” yourself with a mantra like “I love you” make a difference in your sales?
It appears that there is nothing “out there.”
The entire world is a projection of what you feel inside.
So, if you feel love, you will attract love.
Because love contains gratitude, you attract more things to be grateful for. This is the essence of my book, The Attractor Factor, and of course of the movie, “The Secret.”
You get what you feel.
That’s it.
At heart I think you (I) just want love. Well, so does everyone else. When you say “I love you” inside yourself, you cleanse yourself and you radiate an energy that others feel.
The result: more sales.
Still skeptical?
Look at it this way:
Even if this whole method seems totally crazy to you, what harm can come from you saying “I love you” in your mind as you make calls, write emails, deliver pitches, and go about your day?
If nothing else, you’ll have better feeling days.
Try it and see.
By the way, “I love you”.
About the Author: Dr. Joe Vitale is the author of way too many books to list here, including the #1 best-seller The Attractor Factor: 5 Easy Steps for Creating Wealth (or Anything Else) from the Inside Out. His next book is Life’s Missing Instruction Manual: The Guidebook You Should Have Been Given at Birth.
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Fire: A Metaphor For Wealth Building
February 19, 2007 at 5:54 am | In Journal Entry | 2 CommentsWhosoever has attempted in his life to build a fire under the watchful eye of nature (i.e. not in a fire place) has in my opinion all the tools and temperament with which to build extraordinary wealth.
Imagine the times you have set out to build a fire at a campsite. Were the conditions perfect? Rarely are the conditions perfect for such an endeavor. And rarely does the world present opportunity for wealth building in a manner other than one requiring patience, hard work and a little bit of luck and skill.
Do you remember now the task of building that fire? Did you have all the necessary tools? There are tools one needs in the forests of this world and the jungles of this culture. Tools are needed to start and maintain a fire and to begin the upward spiral toward wealth. Axes, saws, matches, books (not to burn!), knowledge and mentors all are necessary to achieve the goals of warmth, safety and peace of mind.
Let’s build a fire. I am a dreamer and idealist and have decided to throw some downright massive logs into our fire pit. Try and try as I might I will have created much smoke but little fire. Now I am the type of person who will give all my energy in short bursts and soon lose track because of the greener grass on the other side. So I put lots and lots of dry grass and flammable kindling and watch as my fire by all outward appearances looks like a genius created it. But wait just a minute and see the fire diminish and my enthusiasm return to the dream state. Not a good way to create a fire or wealth.
Now let us build a fire properly, patiently and with the expertise of those who have come before us. We must gather some wood, a metaphor for the energy and effort required to get our fire of wealth burning. In order to build a fire that will become the foundation of our warmth building efforts, (a metaphor for income) we need some kindling. Next we need some slightly larger sticks and finally some logs. In order to build fire or wealth one step must come before the next or the flames will never grow. We grow each stage in increments each calculated to set the next level ablaze. We must begin growing wealth with some tools and knowledge using baby steps like kindling to get the ball rolling. Next we must put on some bigger branches to keep the fire growing. This step is like putting several key action steps together to create a deal. The final step when the fire is still growing will work only if the first goals have been attained. In this final step of wealth building we use the resources, the heat and energy, of the first steps to create residual wealth and heat. When we’ve attained this third degree the fire takes on a life of its own. Now there is little left to do but sit back and enjoy the heat of our efforts and the residual income we have created to sustain us through the long winter of our lives.
Cheers,
Shawn of Hypno-Freedom
Oprah and The Secret
February 18, 2007 at 3:39 am | In Stress Release | 1 CommentThank the stars, the universe, God, Goddess, your higher self or whatever it is you thank, for Oprah. Oprah brings the world incredible insights and amazing bits of knowledge for anyone and everyone who would listen. She has just completed two shows dedicated to The Secret. The first show received so much attention by fans that she did a follow-up show. Apparently, the public-at-large is ready to begin hearing of such “secrets.”
So what is the secret? Quite simply, it’s the Law of Attraction. What you put out is what you’ll get back. Every major religion talks about it. Now, even science is proving it. The most amazing thing is that anyone can direct it, with the proper tools, of course.
And just what are the tools, you ask? First, you must be aware of it and have the right attitude. Next, you’ll need to believe it with all your being. And the last part is to be grateful for it, even if it’s not present yet.
As with most things, the first step is usually the hardest. Most people, even though they’ve heard biblical quotes many times over, don’t consistently live by, “as you sow, so shall ye reap.” It sounds good, but the practical application is usually never more than an afterthought. The Secret is telling and showing us that the Law of Attraction is in full force and effect each and every second! There is never a time when it is turned off — it is always working and we are always sending out a signal. So awareness is key.
But awareness is only the beginning. You must also apply the right attitude. If you just give a cursory glance at this Law, and then dismiss it as having nothing to do with your life, then you’ve picked up an attitude of close-mindedness. This is quite prevalent in the U.S. and something that needs to change if we are to live in peace. The most helpful attitude for yourself and the world is one of open-mindedness and curiosity. It’s not about believing everything you hear or read, it’s about discovering new things and ideas and being open to learning about them. You can decide later what they mean to you personally.
Which brings us to the part about belief. When you are attempting to change your life for the better, and you’re using the Law of Attraction, one of the important tools is to believe that which you want is already with you, because it is! Look around you right now. Everything that you can see, you attracted to you. If you say you want a million dollars, and you don’t yet have a million dollars in your bank account, then the signal you’re sending out is not in alignment with a million dollars — YET! Now, change your mind right now to believe that you have a million dollars. Feel what that would feel like for you, see yourself with a million dollars, in a million dollar lifestyle, hear the sounds, and experience it! Congratulations! You just successfully put yourself into a million dollar vibration. And that’s what you need to do on a consistent basis. It’s fun, it’s easy, and it’s how millions are attracted.
As you’re putting yourself into that million dollar vibration, the last important piece is to be fully grateful for it as if it were here right now. Thank whatever entity you thank, and be fully of love and joy! It’s fun to imagine and easy to be grateful for such joy. Think about all the things and people already in your life that you are grateful for. If they disappeared tomorrow, would you still be grateful that they were a part of your life even though they are no longer physically present? It’s the same thing, only in reverse. Be thankful FIRST, and it will show up all the faster.
Our lives are filled with things that are intangible. The energy that constantly surrounds us is real, and our personal power within that energy field is enormous — even more than we now know. Let’s start using the Law of Attraction to its fullest and highest potential. Let’s help Oprah create a beautiful world.
Kim
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Emotional Intelligence: The Basics – By Michael G. Rayel, MD
February 16, 2007 at 4:08 pm | In Articles | Leave a CommentThere’s so much talk about emotional intelligence and how it can promote personal and business success. What is it really? What are its basic tenets?
Emotional intelligence is the capacity to recognize, understand, and manage one’s emotions and that of others. This “intelligent” concept focuses on the role of emotion in our daily lives and how it affects our perception, reasoning, and behavior.
Emotions are pervasive in our daily existence. From the time we wake up to the time we retire to bed, we experience emotions. We can get excited by the news of economic recovery, or we feel upset when our favorite team loses a championship game.
Moreover, we can get lonely when our friend of many years decides to look for greener pastures and we can feel anxious when our child does not go home on time after class.
So really, emotions happen everywhere and anytime. There is no day that passes by without emotions being involved. We experience emotions when we win or lose, receive phone calls from long lost friends, greet our children good morning, say hello to our neighbors, prepare meals for our spouses, or ride the subway train.
Emotions are just as normal as the rising of the sun.
However, there are times when our emotions can become overwhelming and can negatively affect our functioning. For instance, anger is normal. However, the inappropriate display of uncontrolled anger can be destructive.
Let me clarify this point with a hypothetical situation. Richard, a relatively nice guy who works as a salesman, is married for 5 years with Cynthia. For the past few years, his sales have plummeted due to some unknown reasons. He used to be mild-mannered but lately he hasn’t been the same.
When he gets angry, he just can’t control himself. He yells, bangs the door, throws fits, and punches the wall. In addition, he calls his wife names and puts her down. Eventually, he has physically harmed Cynthia. Due to his uncontrollable anger and physically abusive behavior, Cynthia has decided to file a divorce.
In this example, Richard has failed to recognize his ongoing anger and its associated behavioral consequences. Because of his inability to recognize his anger and consequent behavior, he has failed miserably to contain his anger despite signs that his wife doesn’t want to put up with it. In addition, he has failed miserably to recognize and understand the feelings of Cynthia. How could he? He can’t even recognize his own.
Emotional intelligence can therefore become an important tool at home and at work. By learning its basic tenets of self awareness (knowing one’s emotions), self management (controlling one’s emotions), social awareness (recognizing the emotions of others), and relationship management (social skills), people can make use of the emotion to advance the positive cause of our families and communities.
About the Author:
Copyright © 2005. Dr. Michael G. Rayel – author (First Aid to Mental Illness—Finalist, Reader’s Preference Choice Award 2002) psychiatrist, and inventor of Oikos Game: An Emotional Intelligence or EQ Game. For more information, visit www.oikosgame.com and www.soardime.com.
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Breathe In The Face Of Fear
February 15, 2007 at 5:26 am | In Journal Entry | Leave a CommentDo you know how to breathe properly?
In my travels day to day I notice that the majority of people I meet do not breathe with intention and ease. The labored breathing patterns of humans I have witnessed are not an isolated and random event. At the time of this awakening one knows such disconnection from our breath to be a phenomenon in an alarming pandemic pattern. The world at large seems to be holding our collective breath as if before some spiritual plunge.
Only recently have many of you begun to notice this among our Earth brothers and sisters. You may also know, as awareness of seemingly new trends and human nuances comes individually to the forefront of thought, that the event is not something entirely new. One becomes with the awareness fully engrossed with the idea that thousands of years has the human family been holding our collective breath in deep spiritual slumber.
What can we do about this? What are the repercussions of such a “fall”? How is the world we know been influenced and forged by the unintentional dreams of unconscious denizens? And why have the answers and truth been omitted and erased for so long when cooperation not slavery is our highest goal?
We could spend a lifetime pondering and acting out conspiracy in our mind for purposes no other than justice in hindsight; or we could take the reigns for a new truth: That inside us is the power and presence of fearless and infinite co-creative ability.
Marianne Williamson wrote a beautiful truth that when understood is the simplest explanation for such a history of somnambulation and causes us to fully comprehend the urgency and necessity of this awakening. “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us”. How succinct and profoundly inherent is this truth. The time for blame and finger pointing is representative of an outmoded consciousness that we find daily does not work toward our blossoming. What once was a recurring nightmare is no longer. What is the old makes now its way for the new and exciting world of collective human consciousness.
Now is the time for a follow-up question: Do you know how to breathe properly? If one watches one’s breathing patterns and patiently discerns the source, the frequency and depth, myriad conclusions one will arrive at regarding ones own level of present sleep. There is a trick here. If we were to discover we are holding our breath it is at this moment an awakening occurs and spiritual lethargy dissipates. In this moment fear, excessive thought, doubt and an entire host of lackluster emotions and self inflicted fetters all become irrelevant and melt away in a fragrant flowering.
In short one of the most profound spiritual practices and human obligations to oneself, one’s community and this Earth family is to become aware of our breath in every wakeful moment.
In the moments that an individual begins to shine many things can happen. Always there is a response from the Earth and our fellow humans in reaction to such a spiritual solar flare.
The Earth of course reacts ever as the flawless and unconditional lover; patient and wise and most of all non-judgmental and infinitely supportive.
The man next door, next tribe, next sect, cult, next set of beliefs is often violently opposed to the light of truth we shine. This is merely more of the old ways clinging to fear, greed and control and has no particular hold upon the choice we must make now to regain spiritual sovereignty.
What we must do despite such opposition and unbelief in oneness is to uphold the breath and face the fear head-on. With continued micro awakenings and increased awareness of the quality and consistency of our smooth and relaxed breathing pattern, a tipping point will be reached and the Earth will one day become the beacon of peace and prosperous abundant enlightenment for which we are destined. A web of quality constructed by heart felt communication, acceptance and compassion is now being woven. Differences will no longer divide only serve to strengthen this beautiful bond. Now is the time to face all fears and breathe this life energy back into this human body.
You have the love, the support, the guidance and all the tools you need to make the leap of faith. Do it now without hesitation and I will meet you here with open arms. Let us rejoice and peace be with us.
Love long and prosper,
Shawn of hypno-freedom.com
Quote by Richard Kline
February 15, 2007 at 2:30 am | In Quotes | Leave a Comment“Confidence is preparation. Everything else is beyond your control.”
—Richard Kline
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The Secret on Oprah
February 13, 2007 at 10:02 pm | In News/Announcements | Leave a CommentThe Oprah broadcast of “The Secret” was February 8th. The more posts that Oprah gets on her message boards about a particular topic, the more inclined she is to repeat the topic. So go to www.oprah.com and find the message board for “The Secret” to let her know that you want more of the same!
Spread the word!
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Quote by Sonya Friedman
February 6, 2007 at 7:26 pm | In Quotes | 2 Comments“The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others.”
—Sonya Friedman
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The Relief of Centeredness
February 4, 2007 at 2:35 am | In Journal Entry | 1 CommentRemaining centered and composed during tough times is a sign of one’s character. How rewarding it is to keep grounded and in a state of witness consciousness even when stress is at a high level.
If ever you find yourself in a confrontation make sure that you separate your true self from any outside influence. For instance if one were to experience a disagreement with a co-worker, start your own healing and ultimately the healing of the relationship by unrelentingly remaining connected with your breath or a mantra; whatever it is it must be powerful and meaningful to you and must shake you to the awareness that you are not your thoughts and you are not the thoughts of the other party. Only from this state of awareness can a sufficient amount of separation occur to allow for a new compassionate viewpoint.
Considering that we create our reality one must take responsibility for ones thoughts as ones thoughts act like a wave on the surface of a pond…once they reach the edge of the pond there is no place to go but back in the same direction from whence they came. The quality of the wave of thought will vary from gentle to violent. It is up entirely to you how the reverberation comes back. We reap what we sew right?
I cannot stress enough the importance of separation from the energies and thoughts ill or otherwise during such a stressful encounter. Accusing, belittling and otherwise defending a mental position whether right or wrong is a willful act of the ego. You can bet that if the other individual holds a similar mental stronghold that the outcome will bode ill for both parties.
Instead allow for a moment the emotions and thoughts to simply be. Do not judge repetitive thoughts and watchfully coordinate your breath or mantra with such repetition and ultimately you will have made yourself a stronger individual. Becoming aware of the repetitive thought as it occurs is the first sign of true enlightenment and power of presence.
Consistently becoming the “observer” is to yield and become flexible. From such a place even self-deprecating thought holds no sway and one’s power becomes immeasurable. You do not have to be a victim of an “opponent”, “aggressor” or even yourself. Take back your beautiful God given gift of centeredness and compassion and new doors of communication open up. Take a stand against the ego’s need to be in the right. Stand fully aware that thoughts and mental positions are merely figments of the imagination and when you do, you will soon realize you have a choice: Allow your thoughts to create your body and world; or get in touch with the inner witness by following the breathe and thus remaining centered in the birthright of the infinite being who you are…always.
Shawn of hypno-freedom.com
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